Truly believing in heaven will give your marriage the patience it needs… In my opinion, keeping a marriage going for eternity in heaven is easy…
For instance, I think we will have the ability to fall in love again whenever we want… You two want to believe you are meeting each other for the first time and fall in love all over again? Done… Do it an eternal amount of times… Roleplay whatever you want… go on any vacation you want… endless adventures… look however you want… be king and queen of a world… etc…
The hardest your marriage will ever be by far in my opinion will be on Earth… But, once you learn to be patient for a lot of things and manage expectations while you are here, your relationship will get easier and easier here, you will fall more and more in love…
You should talk about what you want to do in heaven with each other, like you are planning vacations in my opinion… You should be thinking of your relationship on an eternal scale, not an earthly scale…
You have to be creative in your planning as well… you two can go back to meeting in high school and become high school sweethearts, your wife can be your biggest fan as you become the best baseball player that ever lived…. Same scenario, husband your biggest fan as you become the first female president of wherever… you know what I mean… these adventures aren’t just going on vacations somewhere, it can be living whatever lives you want to live… you can be spies… space explorers… etc…
If you truly fell in love here on earth… you should be able to make it together to heaven… you just need to start truly factoring in heaven into everything…
To give up on a dream here on earth for the sake of a relationship is such a minor thing in all reality… you can live that fantasy an eternal amount of times… and you can live the fantasy under the perfect circumstances as well… how often do our dreams accomplished not match what we thought they would be in our heads? It can be how you saw it in your head in heaven!
Your husband, your wife… they can give you everything you ever wanted out of a relationship or a person, or life… somethings we may just have to wait a while is all…
Have to have faith that there is life after this one and that all things are possible…
This is me just briefly touching on this topic… I think heaven should be factored into all therapy in my opinion… I don’t even know how a therapist could truly make people happy without using heaven therapy…
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